I have at least three explicit porn blogs following me, and one has been in my ignore list literally for years.
I am fucking exhausted by this. Ignoring them and reporting them doesn’t do anything. A little quick research shows that blocking and ignoring users basically does nothing—they can still visit your blog, like posts, reblog posts, all the normal shit you do on tumblr. If I ignore these blogs, all it does is prevent me from being able to see when they reblog or like my posts. That isn’t very comforting in situations like this.
Literally the only thing I can do is publicly tell these blogs to stop following me. That’s the only way I can get some peace of mind. I could change my URL, theme, and icon in one go, but what good would that do? Why should I have to acquiesce in this way, knowing that it’ll hardly help anyway?
Why do these people, fat fetishizers in particular, feel the need to infiltrate our safe spaces? I am not a goddamn fetish, and I am not okay knowing that fucking porn blogs are following me. I am asexual and I am not that comfortable with sex in general—I’d like you to extend some courtesy, some motherfucking decency and stay the fuck away from my blog.